Worry is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained. "Arthur Roche"
When pushing your dream up the hill of life you need a clear mind. Worry is the first step towards fear and fear creates inertia. Inertia brings momentum to a standstill.
Have your ever noticed that worry can dominate a day. What dominates your day and your nights will build and if its worry it will eventually become fear. Here are a few facts on fear. 60% of your fears are unfounded, 20% are already behind you, 10% are so petty that they do not make any real difference, 5% are real, but we cannot do anything about them, and finally, 5% are real and we can do something about them.
So as we understand fear, it is important to process that we can only really control 5% of the things we fear. Today, take a few minutes to figure out what buckets the streams of worry are in your life. If they end up in the 95% buckets move on you can do nothing about them. Then figure out how to deal with the issues where you can affect the outcome.
Remember, you have to choose to worry, and when you do it affects everything that you think or do, and left unchecked it can lead to fear. So you may not have as much to fear as you thought!!
Godspeed, and have a worry free day.
Monday, April 12, 2010
Worry kills Momentum
Friday, April 2, 2010
If you wish to travel far and fast, travel light. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. "Glen Clark"
As we push our heavy square rocks up the hill of life, many times it is important to travel light. We have all seen Hollywood depict this concept with an airplane full of people escaping danger only to find the plane is too heavy. They begin to throw things off the plane until they have lightened the load. Dramatically, they may even throw off a fellow passenger.
Its always surprising to look at this quote and see the heavy baggage that may be slowing us down in our quest for greatness. Its not stuff that we have acquired, its those things that make our hearts heavy and our minds full of thoughts that take us off our focus. Things like envy, jealousy, grudges, selfishness and fear. Be honest, we all carry some or all of these weights each day as we push toward success. Throwing off these weights will empower you to move faster each day and clear your mind to focus on the task at hand, not the negative thoughts they may contribute to your failure.
Only YOU know the heavy baggage you need to throw off to travel and faster and lighter. Success requires a single minded focus on the rock you are pushing today. There is no room for the baggage of envy, grudges, jealousy, or fear. Great is the man who can see their own baggage and be able to leave it at the bottom of the hill as they push towards success. Pity the man who proudly retains these weights for he may be the one thrown off the airplane the next time a "weight" problem develops.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Every great man is always being helped by everybody; for his gift is to get good out of all things and all persons. "John Ruskin"
Greatness is rarely achieved alone. While it may start with a single person or solitary idea, true achievement always needs help. Great leaders understand this concept. Too often great leaders have "Great Egos" that result in the failure of both the leader and the idea. If the leader does not know how to get "good" out of those they lead, they get no help when they need it most. No one wants to help the leader who always acts like they need no one's help in achieving success.
The leader who has created an environment of "help" has figured out how to focus on the good within the team. Balance strong leadership with an openness that that allows the team "to help" you push uphill towards success. If you are making the achievement about your success then the team may not be inclined to help when it is needed the most.
There is a saying "drop the hammer and pick up the shovel". If your leadership style is one of beating the team with a hammer to achieve your greatness, over time the hammer becomes very heavy and there will be no one to help you lift it. Greatness is achieved by being able to pick up the shovel and lead by example. Show the team how to take their "good" and make it great. With this attitude, the team will advance with you to the top of the hill called success. When you stumble (and you will) the team is there to help you succeed. Because they know your success is their success and together you all win.
What lifestyle am I showing everyone I have?
“These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” (Deuteronomy 6: 6-7)
